Lovespoons

The custom of giving lovespoons originated in Wales probably as early as the sixteenth century. The lovespoon seems to have developed from the "cawl" (Welsh broth or soup) spoon. Traditionally, young men would fashion intricately carved wooden spoons and present them to a young girl, hopefully to influence a relationship. Hence the word "spooning". (Somewhat more creative than a heart-shaped red pillow with hearts.)

The spoons come in a variety of shapes and sizes and generally have a symbolic meaning. Here are a few symbols and their significance:

            HEART - Love and affection
            CHAIN LINKS - Loyalty and faithfulness
            TRAPPED BALL - Number of children
            FLOWER - Gentleness and growth
            DIAMOND SHAPE - Good fortune
            VINE/LEAVES - Long and fruitful life
            ANCHOR - Desire to settle down
            SHIELD - Safekeeping
            HORSESHOE - Good luck
            CELTIC CROSS - Wales or Faith, Christening
            BIRDS - Lovebirds or Doves of Peace
            DRAGON - Welsh National Emblem or Strength

Today, Welsh lovespoons are given for all occasions, Births, Christenings, Weddings, Engagements, Anniversaries, or just a gift of Love and Affection.

sources:

Mike Davies Welsh Lovespoons

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